Well it's her own fault. And with anyone (male or female) who seems to be that determined to be a free spirit, the more you try to hold them, the faster they move away. Sounds like tying him down would be as efffective as trying to tie our cousin down to just one person... it's just not physically possible!

I wonder how many marriages would have been saved if the originals had been left alone and people hadn't been blinded by the "happily ever after" versions that say everything should be love at first sight, perfect ending, etc. It sets a standard that can't possibly exist.